"Every soul shall have a taste of death: And only on the Day of Judgment shall you be paid your full recompense. Only he who is saved far from the Fire and admitted to the Garden will have attained the object (of Life): For the life of this world is but goods and chattels of deception." (Al Imran Chapter 3 verse 185)

Tuesday, April 24, 2007

Female Psyche? Part II

Sorry for the pause, but as they say absence makes the heart grow fonder
Here comes the providers section finally….our types of guys fall into this group. They are:

The Successful guy: Now this is the hotshot lawyer or doctor type of brother. He drives a hot car, lives in a nice house and takes women on expensive dinners. The one when a woman thinks could maintain or even upgrade her lifestyle. Most women want to marry this type of brother. This brother symbolises stability and brings the money. Brother successful provides the ‘security blanket’ that most women are looking for. These brothers are usually dominant in a relationship as they have worked hard to reach that level of success. This brother uses leadership skills in a relationship and also in parenting

Daddy: This is the brother that most similar to your dad. He is the one that tells a woman what to do and how to do it. Some women are attracted to controlling men who treat them like little girls. Usually this type is way older that the woman. This type usually attract the successful woman as she is used getting her way in social and work life, they are like a breath of fresh air in the woman world. Daddy types are usually into S&M and are prone to become stalkers

The Regular guy: Now let’s not forget this type of brother. A little bit of credit for the brother, he used to be adventurous in his younger days. Then he turned into a boring lawn mowing guy who watched a lot of T.V. These types usually wind up in long term relationships and start out being the ones in control. Then something happens and the tables are turned and they start seeing the woman in control, nagging them and telling them what to do. Women are attracted to the regular guy because he is loyal, down to earth and stable.

A** Kissing guy: Need I say more? This is the puppy, the one who follows a woman around and does everything she wants. This type is pushed around ad bullied. This is the type that most men look at and think sissy! Most women look at him and think…..poor guy! Women who are dominant and controlling are usually attracted to this guy as they have their way with them. Personally I think this type should grow an Adam’s apple.

Well there we go… last we have concluded my take on the female mind (well really its D’Angelo’s take and my words.)

I think the lover section is more interesting. I don’t know bout this but I think women fall for the lover type with their heart (or loins however you wanna look at it) and for the provider type with their head. Anyway…just a thought.

Till next time…..inshaAllah kheyr


Thursday, April 19, 2007

Female Pyche?

Ok something interesting. A friend of mine called and started talking to me about a paper she was doing on attraction. What type of guys attract women and vice versa.

Don't you think it is interesting that most of the articles written about what attracts women are always by men. It's funny...maybe its because they are able to observe us objectively. Whereas if a women did the research she will most likely be spending time researching the type that she is mostly attracted to. I don't know...anyway that is what i think anyway.

Apparently women are naturally attracted to 8 types of men, this mostly happens subconsciously. The 8 types fall into 2 groups, Lover and Provider.
I think I will talk about the lovers first :D No particular reason....
They are:

-The Bad boy (surprise surprise): Why are women attracted to this type? Danger and thrills! There is something addictive about the emotional rush of being around a man who can do absolutely anything! Its that whole adrenaline rush thing you get. Women are most magnetically attracted to this type…..its all about the adrenaline rush, instant buzz. This type is usually in control of the relationship.

-Adventurer: You can’t forget the fun and excitement that comes with adventure. Their appeal is pretty much the same as the bad boy’s the only difference is that the adventurer seeks thrills such as bungee jumping and sky diving instead of drugs and violence like the bad boy. These type usually have more than one woman on lock and women usually accept that from them. They are hugely optimistic which women love. They are in control of the relationship…cannot be tamed for most of the time

-Seducer (the ladies man): Now this brother understands women. With him it’s all about the lady. He is the one who goes out of his way to please his lady, constantly paying attention to her needs, the other brothers secretly want to be him. He sees the world through his own perspective (usually romantic) which makes women go crazy. This type is usually submissive in the relationship….he is busy tending to the needs of the lady. He tends to up and leave after getting what he wants in the relationship.

- The Artist: Now this type of brother has been knocking women off their feet since the beginning of time. He is the brother that stirs your emotions and is enigmatic and complex. The one who is always in a corner brooding, bending over a guitar or canvas. This brother is a challenge to the woman as he is usually introverted and emotionally sensitive. His complex soul begs for understanding and the woman thinks she can be the one to do this. This is the brother that sees the world on a whole different level. The type that sees a whole picture in a drop of paint or when he looks at a weathered piece of rock can link some sentimental story to it. This is brother is definitely not in control of the relationship as he isn’t even in control of his life. He is disorganised and completely unaware of time, usually with an unhealthy personality.

Credit to David D’Angelo who wrote a whole e-book on this. Which I paraphrased above.

Well this will be continued… I think anyway. Can’t promise anything. Till next time my people
InshaAllah kheyr!


Monday, April 16, 2007

Back by popular demand! :D

After being threatened with a broken leg I decided to blog. I just got off my crutch so I wouldn’t want to risk a relapse! Whitey….this is for you!

Nothing much has been happening in my corner of the world. Life has been utterly mundane and boring. Nothing exciting seems to happen these days. I had a week off work doing absolutely nothing. Just waking up late and moping around the house, occasionally catching up on Grey’s Anatomy.

I did go to see a movie though. I watched 300. No story line in my opinion, just a bunch of guys fighting. However, I gotta point out the Spartan men. Talk about fit guys. That was the highlight of the movie for me. Talk about eye candy……that’s the only reason I watched the movie till the end. I know I was supposed to lower my gaze but I was a bit weak that day.

I did the entry examination to my course… I have to wait until they tally up the results and see if I made it to the shortlist. Hopefully come September I will be a student again….inshaAllah kheyr.

My biopsy results from my endoscopy came back. I have celiac disease. I have a gluten intolerance which causes my immune system to damage the villi in my small intestine restricting the absorption of nutrients to my body. Basically it is an autoimmune disorder which can only be controlled by a gluten free diet. I am relieved that I finally have an answer to my symptoms. I had unexplainable fatigue, anaemia and fractures; they were all due to the lack of nutrients in my body.

That’s what’s new in my world. Till next time…..inshaAllah kheyr! :)