"Every soul shall have a taste of death: And only on the Day of Judgment shall you be paid your full recompense. Only he who is saved far from the Fire and admitted to the Garden will have attained the object (of Life): For the life of this world is but goods and chattels of deception." (Al Imran Chapter 3 verse 185)

Thursday, April 19, 2007

Female Pyche?

Ok something interesting. A friend of mine called and started talking to me about a paper she was doing on attraction. What type of guys attract women and vice versa.

Don't you think it is interesting that most of the articles written about what attracts women are always by men. It's funny...maybe its because they are able to observe us objectively. Whereas if a women did the research she will most likely be spending time researching the type that she is mostly attracted to. I don't know...anyway that is what i think anyway.

Apparently women are naturally attracted to 8 types of men, this mostly happens subconsciously. The 8 types fall into 2 groups, Lover and Provider.
I think I will talk about the lovers first :D No particular reason....
They are:

-The Bad boy (surprise surprise): Why are women attracted to this type? Danger and thrills! There is something addictive about the emotional rush of being around a man who can do absolutely anything! Its that whole adrenaline rush thing you get. Women are most magnetically attracted to this type…..its all about the adrenaline rush, instant buzz. This type is usually in control of the relationship.

-Adventurer: You can’t forget the fun and excitement that comes with adventure. Their appeal is pretty much the same as the bad boy’s the only difference is that the adventurer seeks thrills such as bungee jumping and sky diving instead of drugs and violence like the bad boy. These type usually have more than one woman on lock and women usually accept that from them. They are hugely optimistic which women love. They are in control of the relationship…cannot be tamed for most of the time

-Seducer (the ladies man): Now this brother understands women. With him it’s all about the lady. He is the one who goes out of his way to please his lady, constantly paying attention to her needs, the other brothers secretly want to be him. He sees the world through his own perspective (usually romantic) which makes women go crazy. This type is usually submissive in the relationship….he is busy tending to the needs of the lady. He tends to up and leave after getting what he wants in the relationship.

- The Artist: Now this type of brother has been knocking women off their feet since the beginning of time. He is the brother that stirs your emotions and is enigmatic and complex. The one who is always in a corner brooding, bending over a guitar or canvas. This brother is a challenge to the woman as he is usually introverted and emotionally sensitive. His complex soul begs for understanding and the woman thinks she can be the one to do this. This is the brother that sees the world on a whole different level. The type that sees a whole picture in a drop of paint or when he looks at a weathered piece of rock can link some sentimental story to it. This is brother is definitely not in control of the relationship as he isn’t even in control of his life. He is disorganised and completely unaware of time, usually with an unhealthy personality.

Credit to David D’Angelo who wrote a whole e-book on this. Which I paraphrased above.

Well this will be continued… I think anyway. Can’t promise anything. Till next time my people
InshaAllah kheyr!



Blogger MD said...

lol fezo!always educating us on all things weird and strange!

Thursday, April 19, 2007 10:49:00 PM  
Blogger Ever The Idealist said...


I do love that you are amazing. How come the lovers can't be providers? I that in a bit later on?

Sounds intersting is all I can say - women (i speak for myself first and foremost) are so easily led its amazing that we even have types...

Thursday, April 19, 2007 10:56:00 PM  
Blogger NATIVE FEMALE said...

Wierd and strange is up my street innit :D. Always glad to oblige

And I love u too Idealist. Interesting come the lovers can't be providers? Maybe they are too busy providing while the lovers are doin the loving..... I don't know. Guess the woman that finds a lover and provider in a longterm relationship has hit the jackpot.

We are led easily aint we (talking collectively here....their are exceptions). Why?

Happy to entertain u'z :)

Thursday, April 19, 2007 11:45:00 PM  
Blogger SleepDepraved said...

Ok, I didn't know about 8. I sort of figured out 4 but thats about it on the kind of men woman are attracted to. Interesting that out of the four lovers only the artist seems to have no control on the relationship. I wouldn't have pegged an adventurer for being a whore lol but whatever works.

I await the providers section.

Thursday, April 19, 2007 11:54:00 PM  
Blogger white african said...

hey native how about the the freak category.

you know the type, likes science and what not :0)

Tuesday, April 24, 2007 12:26:00 AM  
Blogger NATIVE FEMALE said...

SD: Kariba sis.
loool....I wouldn't have pegged the adventurer as a whore either but I guess it goes hand in hand with their thrill for adventure.U knw, jumpin from one bed to another :D

WA: Freak category huh....maybe we should.....u can help me compile it ;)

Tuesday, April 24, 2007 11:35:00 PM  

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